Friday, June 1, 2012

Kindred: You can’t pick who you are related to but you can pick your family


Kindred to some is just another word for family. It’s a commonly used word in English and often in phrases like, Kindred Spirit.

In Heathenry it has a similar yet different meaning. I refers more to chosen group of family in the similar way that a coven can be a chosen family. It’s often held together by oaths of kinship and a sense of a common purpose.

I’m going to go a bit on the personal side again today. Currently I’m not involved in any specific group be it held together by oaths or not. I have spent my far amount of time in such groups. I’ve three times been in groups in which all members oathed to each other. One was a Coven while I was in my early days of college and identified as an Eclectic. The two others have both been Heathen Kindreds.

Honestly I think any group with common oaths just like your biological family can be the most rewarding and the most stressful of relationships. Sometimes I really miss being involved with a Kindred. But I left that group right before I started my own family and now I see things very differently.

I guess one could say I’m forming my own Kindred now that is blood. Maybe one day we’ll find a like minded family or two and join together to make a Clan of our own.

Are any of you a part of a group? Does it involve oaths or is it just open membership? If not do you prefer not to be or have you ever been?

Come on I’m curious!!

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2 comments:

  1. I am not part of any group. the closest to what you described above, was a shop I used to frequent when I lived in Minnesota! Oh how I miss Karen's shop :( the frienships forged were amazing! I miss it most because that is where I found my true path, my calling and my dream ;)

    I have yet to find another shop like that since I moved to CA and WA. My "big audacious hairy goal" or BHAG is to open a shoppe here in Spokane for peeps like me looking for a place they can be pagan (or not) and feel safe.

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  2. This is fabulous! I'm not part of any "physical" group but online groups with fellow kin (brothers and sisters) who are heathens. I consider these folk family and would defend as if biological. :) I would love to have kin in RT but in my area, heathens are very rare :(

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